Monday, July 20, 2015

To Drive or not to drive...I think I’ll walk!

 So, lets talk about driving. We all take for granted that we know how to do it. We’ve been doing it since we were 15 years old (some of you for longer). We know how to operate the car, how to drive down the street, how to navigate traffic and traffic lights, etc. Well, come to England and just throw all that out the window!!!!
  We were here for a few days and knew that we needed a car. We got a rental car for a few days until we could decide what we wanted to do. We shipped our mini-van from the States, but that won’t get here until mid-August. So, we illegally pile four girls in the back of a small 4 door Peagut (I know that’s not spelled right) and go around town.
 Josh is very confident in his driving over here, because he’s done it during some of his travels in the past. Plus, he’s just confident about everything! Me, not so much. I was a terrible passenger.. I just knew that we were going to drive all up on the sidewalk or sideswipe the cars on the left. Sitting in the left side passenger seat is just not a good thing..you feel like you should be driving on that side, and you feel like the car is going to take out a rearview mirrow on a parked car. I say that to preface Josh being a passenger for my first driving experience.
      I knew I needed to do it, but I was so nervous, my stomach hurt. I started by telling Josh to please not raise his voice at me, it would make me even more nervous. Just calmly tell me what to do. So, we get started and come to my first round-about...there are about 1 every 1/2 mile over here, I swear. You have to yield to who is coming to you on your right and you have the right of the way of the people coming to your left. Just doesn’t feel natural. So, I”m driving a long with my hands grasped very tightly to the wheel. Oh, did I mention that it’s a standard transmission, so the gear stick is on the left. Haven’t driven one of those since Genny was a baby, so I’m navigating a left handed gear stick, round-abouts everywhere and driving on the left side of the road, but on the right side of the car. MIND BLOWN.
        Josh, bless his heart, is trying to be calm. Ever so often, he shouts “get over”...”move over”....”wait your turn”... and finally “IS THERE A REASON YOU ARE SO CLOSE TO THIS CURB???????”  I was a nervous wreck by the time we got home. But, I tried again, and I”m slowly but surely getting better. I’m fine on the gear shift (it actually is nice because I’m left handed), and I’m pretty good on the round-abouts, but what drives me insane is that people PARK ON THE SIDE OF A TWO LANE ROAD like it’s a freakin parking lot (or car park, as they say over here). For instance, if you live in Greensboro and you are driving down Cornwallis (which is a busy two lane road) and you decide you want to stop at a house on that street, you just pull over and park. So, now people traveling in that lane have to go into the oncoming lane of traffic to pass your parked car or pull behind you and wait for oncoming traffic to pass. It’s everywhere here...and some people don’t wait their turns...and roads are narrow. It makes me hold my breath and squeeze the streering wheel. If I ever get an audience with the queen while I”m here, I will beg her to outlaw parking wherever you want!!
  So, we decide to buy a British car for me to drive around town. Josh can drive the minivan to work. It will be easier for me to navigate the narrow roads with cars parked all over them with a smaller car. We knew our budget and kindof what we wanted. We go to a small, family owned used car dealership that came highly recommended by other US people here. You get good cars, good service and they will buy your car back when you leave. So, off we go. We walk in the lobby, and there are 3 young boys that look like they belong in a boy band (so does every teenager or 20 something boy over here) and they are the owner’s sons. One of them takes us out to the lot, shows us some cars in our price range. We see one, test drive it, decide we like it. We go back inside to tell Boy Band that we will take it. They have already decided to pay the first years tax on it, so that cuts the price down some-we didn’t even have to negotiate with them, they just did that on their own.  We hand them our sky miles credit card (the Boy Band #1 says that credit card companies usually charge them 2%, but that’s okay, Josh could go buy a round of beers at their fathers bachelor party he was getting ready to have...seriously, not kidding..that is what he said). So, he charges our credit card, and out we go with a car....45 minutes have passed since we pulled in the lot. Have you ever in your American life bought a car that fast? Never...ever. It took us about 8 hours to buy our van. Anyway, it’s a 4 door hatchback Ford Fiesta and I love it! After driving a mini van for 13 years, I love driving around in the little car! It’s great. I’m figuring out how to handle all the parked cars and how to navigate around them.
 When you are a teenager and learning to drive over here, I’ve noticed that you have a magnet sticker on your car with the letter L on it..I’m guessing for “learner”. Leah says the other day, “Mommy, you should have one of those on your car so people will know you are new to driving over here”. Josh just chuckles and says, “Oh, I think they already know that”. Ha Ha

My 2007 Ford Fiesta!!!



Josh took this picture to show the scale of how small the car is! It actually looks like a mini version of our van that’s coming soon! They will look so precious parked next to each other!!

Friday, July 10, 2015

So, we are finally here...it actually did happen!!!

What a whirlwind it has been since we left NC!!!
End of June:
-got all our passports...sent away for 5 Visas (Josh didn’t need one)..that wasn’t an easy process
-had 3 different shipments to take our things away: 1 to storage, 1 big household goods that will arrive in late August, and 1 express shipment that will come in July
-slept on the floor while we waited for the last day of school
-cried a lot while telling friends goodbye
-went to beach for 2 beautiful long weeks
-returned to Sanford to finish cleaning house...
-recieved VISAS!!! Yay!
-went to Charlotte

After we left Charlotte and had said all of our goodbyes from Greensboro, the beach and Charlotte, we started what the girls referred to as “our phases”.
Phase 1: head to Raleigh to spend the night and get ready to take Annie to the airport. The girls were thrilled with the hotel room. They really are very easy when it comes to that! We swam and then walked to dinner. Very nice night. Got up the next morning to take Annie to RDU. That didn’t go as planned. Bottom line is that her kennel was too small according to their standards, so we had to call all over the Raliegh Durham area to find one. Finally after about 10 stores, we found the last one in Durahm. We got it, made her another flight for the next day, found someone who would kennel her for the night and then take her to the airport the next day. I wish it was as easy as I just typed it, but it wasn’t. It took about 5 heart atttacks and 6 hours to figure out all that. Then we headed to Charleston for Phase 2!!
Phase 2: sleep in a beautiful Charleston hotel room and head to the airport the next day!! Josh got up and took the car to the port to have it shipped over here and then came back for us. We loaded all 12 suitcases in a shuttle and headed to the airport. The girls were excited by nervous. The plane was small, but it was on-time. We took off with a few tears and hand holding, but it was a quick flight. Once we landed in Dulles, the girls were playing cards and laughing and ready for the next flight.
Phase 3: big airplane to London! The girls were so excited because of the movie choices. Madeline watched at least 6 movies on the flight..the first 20 minutes of them. We slept a little, but not great, so when we landed in London at 6:30 am, we were going on fumes!
 We went through customs and got all our luggage and found a place to wait for our ride and to go collect Annie.

That part didn’t go so well. First, it was the hottest day in the world there, and no one has AC. We waited at the animal pick up stop for 4 hours in the hot van. Genny slept, I tried, the rest of us just paced around. At that end of that time, we found out that she had arrived 10 hours past the quarantined time of a tape worm test, so she was going to need one and stay for 24 hours.
 So, we headed to Cheltenham. Our wonderful sponsers had set up a 2 bedroom furnished apartment for us to stay in! It was so beautiful and nice to sleep in a bed.
 We spent the next few days just sleeping and wondering around. It took awhile to get our body clocks right.
 One thing I know is that Cheltenham is so beautiful and I can’t wait to find my way around here!!
 Josh made the girls suitcase beds once we landed in London while we were waiting for our ride!
 Long line waiting to go through customs. We were very foggy eyed that morning!
 Genny found a way to sleep in the hot hot hot van!! Lucky girl

Girls getting on the first plane! They were so nervous!!